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Sex with someone else has to account for both of our needs and desires -- and the desire to really share something with someone -- not just those of one. Sex also really shouldn't be scary. Again, they're different things which tend to feel different in a variety of ways, and sharing pleasure with someone else and exploring it by ourselves are different needs for many people, not replacements or substitutions for the other. In the case where you do experience any pain or discomfort -- such as, let's say, pushing fingers into the vaginal opening too roughly or deeply for you, or not using a lubricant when you need to -- then you know to just pull back and go back to what did feel good, add lube or just take a break for a little bit until things stop hurting.
If so, does this mean I have to stop masturbating? You might find you're better doing some things to yourself than your partner is, or vice-versa. I am not ready to have sex yet but I want to get the feeling of it. Chronic UTIs are one common cause, and so are issues like weakness of the bladder muscles, the side effects of certain medications, a blocked urethra, obesity, stress or having an overactive bladder which can usually be treated with medication and some other therapies. I also say that because even when you are ready for sex with a partner, both you and they may well still want to masturbate and choose to masturbate.
Again, it depends on the lady, but i know girls who masturbate daily, weekly, or never. It's a healthy way to learn about yourself and your body, so you feel more comfortable when you're ready to have a sexual partner. Do you masturbate more or less often when you're in a relationship? We have a whole array of toys to use. Do girls relieve stress when they masturbate? I cure anxiety over big projects with self-induced orgasms. Probably about the same.